Closing Up

For a while now, Nick & I have been looking for a new lover. Actively, even.

We aren't anymore. Not because we have found Mr./Ms. Wonderful-Poly, but because we are tired of sifting through the Mr./Ms. Not-Wonderful-Not-Poly's. Too many people who either are great, and walk away, or who are so not great that we wished we'd never met them.

So, we aren't looking anymore. We both are okay where we are, and happy with each other. Nick has one other lover, and while I'd like another, I'm just not willing to slog through any more crap to get one. So, I guess I don't want ont hat badly, now do I?

We've left it with a "If Mr./Ms. Perfectly-Wonderful-Poly drops into our lap, and convinces us that he/she is all that & a bag of rice chips, we'll think about it." This eventuality is extremely unlikely,and I'm not going to hold my breath.

So, for all intents & purposes, our circle is closed to new people. And I feel pretty darned good about that fact.